
A lot has happened in the last two months. I switched careers and found a job, moved into a new apartment while I was unemployed with a person I’ve only known for three months, and all without any money in my emergency fund. I’ve also been cleaning non-stop. At both my apartment and work,…

The older I get the more I realize that I enjoy the cozy things more and more. There’s a line in a Jay-Z song that sums up how I feel, “I don’t want much, I drove every car. Some nice cooked food, some nice clean drawahs”. And I think, for me, there’s not much…

Connect with people isn’t always easy. It could be hard to trust others, feeling as though you’re not likeable or interesting enough. Sometimes it’s a power dynamic where you let someone confine you into a mold, who they want you to be so they can feel desired. And all in the name of wanting…